Have you ever been in a relationship where you were long gone before you even left? Your heart, your mind, your soul. All gone before you physically made your way out the door. The person you used to love now drives you crazy. It’s hard […]
Category: Anger
DESPERATE FOR AN APOLOGY?
We think when we’ve been “wronged”, we deserve an apology. Some validation that we are right and they are wrong. It makes us angry every time we think about the injustice. Judgement, bitterness, righteousness; it can fill us up. If they would just ADMIT some […]
CAUSING PAIN?
Who wants to feel pain? Hurt? No one does. So instead we lash out and hurt those around us. Sometimes even ourselves. This was never more clear to me at the end of my marriage and the months following. I was the object of a […]
STORMS
Lifetime of calm water? No thank you. Those storms made me the person I am today. I wouldn’t have the great friendships I have now without those lessons. I wouldn’t be the mom I am without those experiences. I know for a fact I wouldn’t […]
ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT
You always get to ask for what you want. Just know you may not get it. And that’s ok. We don’t want people to do what they aren’t capable of doing. What they don’t WANT to do. On the flip side, they may not know […]
FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF?
Ouch. This might hurt. As long as you are feeling sorry for yourself, you will be stuck. It’s normal, it’s hard out there, right? Life challenges us. Things happen. Rise up to the challenges. Put your ego aside. Take responsibility. When I stopped feeling sorry for […]
PEOPLE PLEASING TAKE 2
People pleasing. Ugh. Apparently I still need work in this area. I was struggling with speaking my truth versus making someone angry. But by not stepping up, I was just getting frustrated and angry with myself. Not cool. So, I took a deep breath […]
UGLY TRUTH
Ok, here is some tough love. We all have a sad story. We all have stress. So many responsibilities. We get to choose how to tell our story. Do you tell your story with a lot of drama? Do you tell your story and sound […]
REGRETS
Do you have regrets? If so, have you chosen to do life any differently? When I think about my business, I measure my actions by regret. Will I regret not trying to be an entrepreneur? Will I regret not pushing myself to learn things I’m afraid to […]
ANGER
I’ve got anger.Surprising, right?I talk a lot about healing, vulnerability, growth, and pain.But sometimes anger is a good thing.It lets us know that something might be wrong.It can be fuel to change.It makes me angry when people are told to compromise to make someone else […]